However, as I continued to settle into this new life, I finally understood that my relationship was beyond repair and leaving it would make me a better father for my daughter. I needed to be happy to parent effectively. In making this decision to separate, I knew I would likely endure even harder times. I expected a significant level of resentment which I knew would show its face as we negotiated terms of the parenting agreement. But I had to think about what was best for my daughter and make some tough choices. It takes a lot of strength and resolve. In my opinion, too many people stay together because they think it’s best for the children. In actuality, we can be restricted in unhealthy relationships to be the best possible parent. Ultimately what our children need from us is steadfast love and open communication, not necessarily a certain relationship status.
Damon D’Arienzo/@singledadmagic
Damon D’Arienzo/@singledadmagic
‘I had to leave. I had to be a single dad to be a better father for my daughter.’: Single dad explains his relationship was ‘vulnerable, beyond repair,’ despite being determined to have a ‘strong co-parenting relationship’
