You will need to make sacrifices to be the best parent you can be. My joy and successes as a single father have come at the expense of some things such as a romantic relationship or advancing my career. Sure, I worry about it and wonder if I am making the right decisions. But, being an awesome dad makes me feel better than anything. These early years are so important and cherished – I wouldn’t have it any other way. If there are consequences down the road then I’ll be able to approach them more courageously because my relationship with my child is so rewarding.
Damon D’Arienzo/@singledadmagic
You will make mistakes. You cannot foresee every obstacle. I recently endured an abusive relationship with a narcissist and made some terrible choices which hurt my daughter and damaged my co-parenting relationship. My daughter recently loss her best friend. Accept that things will happen where you will be required to learn on the fly. But if you already have love as a cornerstone of your relationship with your children, then this will be much less demanding to deal with.
Damon D’Arienzo/@singledadmagic