We all need to remember and accept that a father’s love is no less than a mother’s. But we, as fathers, need to love and act for this to be true as well as to break unfavorable stereotypes which are impeding progress for equal parenting rights. You are only a birth parent until you demonstrate your loyalty to your child through words and actions. You must earn the right to be known as a mother or father. And, ultimately, only you will know in your heart if you are giving it all you have.
Damon D’Arienzo/@singledadmagic
I also respect that everyone has different circumstances which is why my message is one of individual responsibility – what you alone are accountable for. There aren’t many rules to follow but practice of certain ones are sure to relieve your worries and enhance your experience as a single parent. Never talk poorly about their other parent. Be careful about jumping to conclusions. If you co-parent, don’t stop working on the relationship. Be flexible. Be patient. Remember, parental disagreements aren’t unique to co-parents. Everybody has their own parenting styles and expectations and they will forever require collaboration to achieve the right balance. Start accepting that not everything will be in your control as this is important for your sanity.
Damon D’Arienzo/@singledadmagic
