I Watched My Son Laugh at a Waiter With Down Syndrome, but Instead of Making a Scene, I Waited Until We Got Home

“How did he die?” Leo said.

“Heart problems,” I said. “People with Down syndrome have a higher risk for certain heart conditions. He was thirty-two.”

Leo was quiet.

“What was his name again?” Leo said.

“Daniel,” I said. “Danny.”

He looked at the photograph from the movie theater.

“Did he know?” Leo said. “When people made fun of him?”

“Sometimes,” I said. “Not always. He was better at some social cues than others. When he didn’t know, I was grateful he didn’t know. When he did know, I watched him handle it in a way I could never fully explain, just absorb it and keep going, keep being himself, and I was in awe of him for that even when I was too young to say so.”

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“How come you never told me about him?” Leo said.

I sat with this question.

“I’ve been asking myself that for about forty minutes,” I said.

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